@Shara-Mills I use a simple (probably way too simple) sorting method.
Is it something you are capable of doing but choose not to? If yes, then it's a style choice.
Is it something you cannot do or hate doing and so choose not to incorporate it for 'style' reasons? If yes, then it is a weakness.
When in doubt, ALWAYS just keep creating and figure it out as you go 🙂
As for choosing what elements of reality to keep and what to let go I'm still kinda struggling with that question.
Good luck! Style is a weird, elusive and fickle little monster.